I've also read some stories here that seem far-fetched. There are lots of TGs who come here looking for support, but my SO pointed out to me years ago that there are others who come here because it is a much needed outlet for their fantasies. Their posts seem permeated with wishful thinking. I suppose this is also a form of support as it is a coping mechanism do deal with life circumstances in which these TGs may feel they cannot express themselves as much as they need to.
There is nothing wrong with an ego boost and there is no harm when it is all done in good fun and everyone realizes it is a fantasy since as mentioned, this can be a valuable coping mechanism.
It bothers me when these members pass off their stories as the truth and thoughtlessly cheer others on in their fantasies and encourage them to go further than what might be safe or realistic. This can set a younger or more gullible CD up for severe disappointment since it is taking advantage of their own wishful thinking.
Encouraging small and perhaps unglamorous but concrete steps towards progress is much better than promoting denial and rash behavior.
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