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    Joy it's time to take your neighbor and cut him off at the knees. Sorry guy feelings. The man needs a lesson in manners. Tell him that your relationship with him has ended and if you like tell him that you taped your last session and any further threats from him would cause you to use the tape. If he is going to out you you are going to bring him down with you.
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    Pros and pronouns...

    Yes, the line about "kissed me on the check and left" did put a hole in the tale...

    Still, change a few pronouns and this situation does describe more than one situation I have seen people live through, live down.

    In those, however, it was a "guy-living-as-a-girl" part time while living with a guy, a "roomate" for all public purposes. Usually this was a "stay at home gal" thing with the other guy working full time to support them until they could live their real dreams.

    Wasn't "Dog Day Afternoon" based on a true story? So, who knows about the "whole truth" of this, or, what parts were changed to protect them from thier partner who is on these same forum sometimes?

    The thing to be aware of here is the notion of being "compromised." If someone thinks they are, and acts stupidly to protect it, they're pretty much stuck with the entire ride unless they can get out of it.

    Not always an easy thing to do since life does not have a "reverse" button...

    Meanwhile, so long as anyone can open a thread here on the general page, and splash this kind of stuff in front of us, about all we can do is deal with it "as if" until it gets moved or goes away.

    Here's for hoping both happens to this one before it goes "viral" on the Net at this adress....

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    Oh come on... you really aren't buying this are you?? lol...
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    I'll buy enough to pay attention...

    >> Oh come on... you really aren't buying this are you?? lol...


    I wish it wasn't being put out there for sale, but, like I said, I've seen something very like this and it never turns out well.

    Too bad too. If it were a porn movie you could just toss in the wife, the dogs, and a couple of good-smelling plants...

    By the way, gotta love the tags added to this one. (below)

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    Don't you know how to use the 'quote' button mklinden? Press quote... instead of you having to write >> text here...

    Yes I noticed those tags... thought they were amusing

    Quote Originally Posted by mklinden2010 View Post
    Too bad too. If it were a porn movie you could just toss in the wife, the dogs, and a couple of good-smelling plants...
    and I thought that said smelling pants
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    Well, I thought so...

    Quote Originally Posted by Tamara Croft View Post
    Don't you know how to use the 'quote' button mklinden? Press quote... instead of you having to write >> text here...

    Yes I noticed those tags... thought they were amusing

    and I thought that said smelling pants
    TC,

    Well, I thought I did.

    If I push "quote" then I get the entire message quoted in the reply - usually not what I want to do.

    If there's a way to select just some text, and then push "quote" and get only part of a post, I'm all for it.

    Didn't seem to work when I just tried it, however.

    If it does, then I don't.

    Meanwhile, I just "cut and paste" what I want, and denote it with ">>"

    Old email habits of an old emailer...

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    Rather than quoting just what you want, you can quote the whole thing then remove the parts you don't want from the quote.
    ...Sorry, sort of off-topic.

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    No loss.

    >>...Sorry, sort of off-topic.

    Yeah, but the OP kind of imploded anyway....

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    Suchha BS

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    Surprise!

    Just got home from work and have read the replies to my post[I work from 12pm to 8pm].

    First, I would like to thank the girls that offered some very good advice. Wish I had thought about turning the tables as I am sure that my video and voice recording equipment will do the trick quite well! Have little doubt that will stop any further harrassment.

    Second, one person suggested that as my wife knows why would I be concerned. Well perhaps the fact that our 6 children, 17 grandchildren and 2 great grand children do not know plus our many friends, etc do not know might give me cause for concern.

    My wife was initially supportive but over time has changed. She now wants nothing to do with my crossdressing.

    The incident with the cd friend was as I described, however, the guilt I have experienced since has led me to conclude it really is not worth it!
    I would also agree that it was totally wrong and unfair to my wife.

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    nice job on the first post edit.... why are you editing stuff out of it? just makes you look even more like you're making the whole thing up... You can edit it all you like, I can see what you've edited...
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    [SIZE="3"]I like to think I would have told that guy to go **** himself, but who knows what one may do in a state of panic ?[/SIZE]
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    i dont belive this at all first off im not into dudes at all propositioned or not im not doin it tell all you want who is going to believe you and even if some one did find out and believe him he hit on you and now poeple would know that he likes guys that are dressed up soo you would have ammo too, i think if any of this was true you wouldnt have kept talking to him let alone invite him in especially when you freaked out when he saw u i would have turned and went in imediatly and hope he thought it was someone else like a cousin or other ladie person

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    i just dont know what to say.im stunned!!!!
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    Joy,I had a similar situation almost 30 years ago. Unless you want to have oral sex with him. And people do those things and enjoy it but if it's not your idea to do it,then it's about as much fun as digging a septic tank or shingeling a roof in 100 degree weather. I'd tell the SOB "no" even if I had to duke it out with him. I don't think he'll snitch on you for dressing,either, but he's trying to keep you subject so he'll leave you to wonder if he just might blab. I found out the hard way back in about 1981 or 1982 that some guys expect a "TV" to be only too glad to perform certain acts since that's what "TV's" do. Tell him to 86 it or stay on his side of the property line

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    I know that I'm not a CD but I am a Trans gender but none the less no one makes me do anything I don't want to do and the next thing is if you are married your spouse should know about what you are doing. When I was married my wife knew everything I did. We kept no secrets from each other. I'm sorry girls if I jumped in your area but I'm new here and still don't quite know where I am supposed to be.

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    he's totally a pig!!! you must no let him do this, you have to stand up for yourself and be treated with respect you can always blackmail him too!! good luck girl.!

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    [SIZE=4]All I can say is "WOW"!! This thread is messed up. Joy I don't usually become rude or crass with people. However, IF this is true I have to say that I would think you were the weakest simpleton I have ever run into. If this is true I feel sorry for you. You need to either get the authorities involved or cowgirl- up, and take charge of the situation to put an end to it. That is unless you literally enjoy being raped? I am sorry if I have offended anyone with this. It is just mho on the matter.[/SIZE]
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    Just say no!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenni Y View Post
    I thought for a minute I was in the FictionMania site
    [SIZE=2]Actually, [/SIZE]

    [SIZE=2]You Are....[/SIZE]

    [SIZE=2]Or the Twilight Zone[/SIZE]

    [SIZE=2]Take your pick....[/SIZE]
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    I tend to be of the overly trusting sort, I tend to be the kind to give folks the benefit of the doubt - but I am calling shenanigans.

    On the faintest possibility that this is true (it's not) the solution is simple. You point out to your neighbor that what he has done is a felony, punishable by jail time. You then explain to him that he is the only other person in the world who knows about your dressing (doesn't have to be true) so you know that if you are ever outed, that he is the one responsible for it. You then explain to him that if you are ever outed, your first stop will be the FBI, to tell them about the blackmail.

    Then tell him about the herpes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hope View Post
    Then tell him about the herpes.
    [SIZE=2]Nah......don't say that.....that's too mean.[/SIZE]
    [SIZE=2][/SIZE]
    [SIZE=2]Tell him you have full blown AIDS......[/SIZE]
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    it would seem this incident was caught on video,although the facts are not exactly as given. . .
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    This reminds me of an article in "the Onion" : "These gay guys won't stop sucking my *i**" ( a 'woe is me' tale )
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