Joy,I had a similar situation almost 30 years ago. Unless you want to have oral sex with him. And people do those things and enjoy it but if it's not your idea to do it,then it's about as much fun as digging a septic tank or shingeling a roof in 100 degree weather. I'd tell the SOB "no" even if I had to duke it out with him. I don't think he'll snitch on you for dressing,either, but he's trying to keep you subject so he'll leave you to wonder if he just might blab. I found out the hard way back in about 1981 or 1982 that some guys expect a "TV" to be only too glad to perform certain acts since that's what "TV's" do. Tell him to 86 it or stay on his side of the property line
