I used that exact term for months. However, I'm feeling more and more transgendered as time goes on. I was excited about having balanced energy, and then I went past the balance and I'm feeling fine with it.
For me, I think it was a stage.
I used that exact term for months. However, I'm feeling more and more transgendered as time goes on. I was excited about having balanced energy, and then I went past the balance and I'm feeling fine with it.
For me, I think it was a stage.
I feel very happy being male as well as female, i would love however to have real breasts, that for me would be so lovely,no more than that. Im happy being born a man just love being able to escape into that femine side oh bliss.
We are verry happy to co-exist:2c:
Ditto.Originally Posted by brittany michelle
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I follow the path of both genders. I prefer to wear womens clothing but at the same time I want to be with a woman. I like to play ball and watch war movies, yet I also collect jewelry and have a collection of porcelon dolls (no I don't play with them). I spend most of my time with GG's either in drab or dressed. Like most men I hate to shave, yet every part of my body is free of hair less one. If this is what you call bi-gender then I'm with you.
:fairy1:Put a little lipstick on you'll feel better:fairy3:
Jewelry and porcelain dolls are feminine by society, not nature. Ball and war movies are the same. It's an energy that is masculine or feminine, a way of looking at the world and reacting to it.
of course i was born a male,and have always done male things,but ive always known that there was more to myself that i couldent identify.it took years to finally come to terms with the fact that im different than other guys,and that i had a very pronounced female side that wanted to come out,but i suppressed her for most of my life.i would say that within about the last 8 years ive really accepted the fact that im a crossdresser or transvestite.i still very much love all the male things i do,and would not change them for any thing but im also embracing my feminine side more,and more every day.ive truly found that as i have intertwined both of my sides i really feel more relaxed,more complete,more focused,and in general have less of a chip on my shoulder with the world,and im finding im calmer,and way more understanding of others.so without jenifer im not a whole being.im glad shes part of who i am now,and wouldent do away with her for anything....those are just my ramblings.
just a florida girly girl...................................what in the world can make this brown eyed girl turn blue(roxette)
I do enjoy being male because it makes me, me. My male side has found the love of my life and given me four beautiful children that I can be a father to.
I do prefer to be around women though as I enjoy the conversation so much more as I feel I relate more personally to what they have to say. Now I do have male friends that I enjoy talking with, however I usually do not have the same drive as they do when it comes to hanging out and say working on a car. YUCK. Now if you could put them in a room with a deck of cards, AWESOME!!!
But my best friend is also my wife, so I am very happy to hang out with her as much as possible.
If I could without fear of alienation, I would love to have those same conversations with both the men and the women dressed in normal everyday womens clothing or as I like to say where my clothing that makes me feel comfortable. This would make me happier then hiding a part of me that makes me, me.
While i agree with you on most of your self description, i have never had any feelings of wishing i had female body parts or of giving birth. In those regards i'm perfectly happy with my male body and the male way of life, and it is only in this past year that i have truly allowed my full femme side to bloom. I also find myself wanting to and striving to spend time with GG friends and acquaintances, and feeling more at peace when i can be with them. This next year i hope to more fully evolve Cassie and get to know her. mj (Cassie)
I'm a transvestite and enjoy preparing and presenting myself to look as much like a woman as I can. The results are mixed, but I feel very comfortable and wouldn't want to lose that option. I've never wanted to go through any of the iconic physical female experiences and I find my male body to be complicated and challenging enough to manage. I enjoy doing things that are typically associated with men, but know of many women who participate in the same activities. The physical isn't the critical measurement here.
The real challenge is sorting out the psychological and emotional differences between genders. I still can't wrap my mind around much of how my wife or most other women view the world and their place in that world. I hate to use stereotypes, but that's all I have because I can't get hold of reality. I'm concerned for family and want to help them all I can, but unlike many women I know, I have to keep my own needs in the equation from the start, not after I've compromised my health or security. I have yet to melt over any infant not my own, and baby animals on TV don't bring out my maternal instinct.
I don't believe that wanting to be "pretty" or feeling happy at the touch of soft, smooth fabrics and enjoying delicate floral scents is expressly female. Nor are most typically male activities exclusively male. There is a set of differences between Male and Female and it seems we are trying to find it. Dressing and presenting and interacting as much like a woman may be a good first step, but we won't find it in the makeup section, it's somewhere else.
Sarah
Being transgender isn't a lifestyle choice. How you deal with it is.
I haven't had the luckiest life so far, I've known much misfortune with career, relationships, friends, and more. Always was I looking to find social contacts, make friends, and being accepted. Since this is often a matter of social standards, I never let Jessy out in front of anyone but myself.
But I can't help wondering sometimes, if my life would have been different if I was born a GG. I always was more comfortable with the female side, and around female friends. I still haven't found my balance, and only time will tell. Fact is that my life as a male, trying to work up, trying to find friends, going out, is often much harder and still more boring than the few times a week seeing Jessy at home.
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My thoughts exactly. Crossdressing is not something that we just woke up to one day, it is one of the cards we were dealt in life. Having said that, I'm not really sure that this is a fair question because I've always been a guy who loves doing guy things and can do them freely. On the other hand, being a CD, you are very restricted from doing girly things with the same freedom as a GG. I suppose what I am really trying to say is that it is really difficult to make a valid comparison on a playing field that isn't level.
Just my 2 cents worth....
Rachel
I am happy being both male and female. I truly believe that my female half is what makes me a better male. I have a deeper respect and understanding of women because part of my mind is female. Mt body is definitely male, but I do the best I can with what I got. I often wonder if life might be boring if I had to be one or the other all the time.
I enjoy being a male crossdresser. But sometimes I wish I could be feminine from the waist up and a male in the middle. Female face and upper body with a nice breast but with a penis. I love womens so I guess I would be considererd being a lesbian?
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