Oh I dig being who I am. When I read the term "drab" to describe the male form...makes me think that they ain't trying hard enough. The new chick thing for me is a blast indeed. But, I am just used to being really socially dominant in my natural state....you know, dookie braids, silk shirt n tie with cut off BDU's and combat boots. I suppose I might think differently if I could actually pass for a female but, just my height eliminates that for me right off the bat.