The definition of "crossdresser" is starting to sound pretty subjective. Is it how a person identifies (male or female), or wants to be seen by the public? Could be, but not all MtF crossdressers identify or want to be seen as female when dressed, so maybe some FtM crossdressers don't either. Is it the mere fact of which section of the store you got your clothes? Not always, because tomboys aren't necessarily considered crossdressers. Apparently neither are Emo boys who sometimes wear girl's clothes in a boyish way.
Is it who they prefer to date? I think we've established here that Transmen, Transwomen, and MtF crossdressers don't necessarily have to fall into the gay/lesbian, straight or bi category.
In my personal experience... I've been wearing some, but not all male clothes for as long as I can remember, usually mixing them. Men's pants, women's top; or women's pants, men's shirt. The tomboy and crossdresser labels both technically fit me, but I don't completely identify as either. Gender-wise, I'm somewhere in the middle, and flexible according to my mood at the moment - sometimes feeling more masculine and sometimes more feminine. So what the heck am I? I suppose I'm neither here nor there; all and nothing at all.: The only time I feel like a crossdresser is when I dress very masculine.
