I have to say I have used several different salons in the NY. long island area. However before I use a salon I don't know I ask over the phone if is ok. only once was I told they would prefer me not comming. The salon I use now I have tried many of the woman who work there to do my hair. I was treated well by everyone. I get a coloring shaping/styling and it is always female styled. I give a nice tip and always say thank you. I believe you are there to get your hair done and be treated with respect. As any customer should be. If they happen to like you that is a big plus. However people like people because of how you treat then. over time a good relationship can develop and you would be surprised how much more you can get with a smile and a thank you. Tips help but how you treat people is even more important.