Do CDs/TS/TV have a greater...

[KateLongman27]

It's not silly, since Crossdressers, Tranvestites, Transsexuals etc. are all part of the transgendered community.

On this forum I'll bet they'll be several topics along the lines of why we do we crossdress? (e.g. http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...+we+crossdress ) some of the reason range from: It's a part of who we are to feeling sexy.

The question we should be asking is are we driven subconsciously driven to emulate what our perfect woman who we could spend the rest of our lives with? Since finding the perfect woman is a fools errand, it's not going to happen, so therefore we find a partner who is near perfect and compromise. With crossdressing it's different because you have to live with the otherside of you; the subconscious driving you to reach that perfection.

Since every single one of us dresses in a particular, style, with a particular hair colour etc. so even if we don't admit it we are exactly on the same playing field as transsexuals since in order to crossdress there is a need to be a female in one way or another. It's just that we don't feel that we're a female in the wrong body.

[Sheila]

you said dicuss the folowing staement

Transsexuals have a greater insight into what a man seeks in a woman, then men themselves.

we are doing, you just maybe don't like the answers you are getting

If you mean YOU should be asking a different question, then ask that and not the one you did

[Jonianne]

I can only speak as a cd'er. I think for the most part, as evidenced by this forum, we often see women with our male minds and try to imitate what feels good to our male mind.

Hince all the threads about how we dress so much better than ordinary women. All we are really doing is demonstrating how we have no clue how women think and live daily. They just want to dress in a comfortable way like men have done for centuries.

We as cd'ers have to strive just as hard to be sensitive and understanding of women, as a good non-cd'ing male who wants to be sensitive. I don't think there is really much of a difference, if any.

[MissKara]

I would actually answer Yes I have found that as Kara has developed (Being a TS/TG myself), I have found that I am able to predict, with greater accuracy, what women are actually looking for in a mna :P

Lota love,
Miss Kara

[Sheila]

Kara what are we looking for in a man ?

[MissKara]

Kara what are we looking for in a man ?

Me thinks I better elaborate here: I can usually tell, with greater accuracy, what my female friends/acquaintances are looking for a in a man, not just anyone off the street because every girl is different and is looking for different things in a man (One of my friends is looking for a completely nerdy type but doesn't want to admit it because she is ashamed of it while another wants someone who will be narky/annoying to her)

[noeleena]

Hi ,

I had to look at that ?? a few times, the answer is for many no.
they dont because they are baseing what they see on how they think not as a woman because they only see what they see as a very young female they have a preconceved idear of what a woman is with out the experance to back it up. in other words no life experance. & most women dont live like , many of those t s wont to.
& every one see s things differently & many men see a woman as a sexual object to have as a partner who looks like a sex object.

This is a very loaded ?? or two,
The other point is some of us are not t s or ever will be so no again im both male & female so if i look at those ? where does that put me right in the middle & no im not interested in men or ever will be yet i live as a woman .

The other part is im liveing with a woman ( natal ) & have been for 37 years.
i have that experance to back up how i see a woman or women. & how i see my self . I dont try to even emulte a woman because i was born with that part of my self as one
We may come under the same heading of trans . there is a big difference in how we think, a male well most any way dont & cant think as a female or a woman . because they are not wired with a womans brain to start with . & theres no point in saying they do. you may dress in female no probs & you may pass well & no dought do a far better show of it than i ever will that does not make you a female or a woman
A t s no dought most are wired with a female brain & yes hate thier body yet they are female & will, well most go h r t & s r s & what ever so they can live as a female .
As to dressing in female i dont do that for a show or to emulat a female i dress as a woman i dont wear male clothes so thats a no brainer to me . dont have any ,

That ?? of what do i see in a male . or insights nothing because i never related to men so to ask some of us that ?
i can sermise the answer just not give a solid one & no dought the answers will vary a lot. & because our back grounds are so different you have to take that in to account as well .

...noeleena...