Quote Originally Posted by FemmeElastique View Post
@sometimes_miss: Ok, so the numbers are fuzzy. My thing is, I like to crossdress and meet guys and be treated like a woman. It's like I am a woman sexually or something. But I'm not a transsexual nor do I want to be. I like that I can be both genders and wouldn't want to mess that up.
I always found it strange that a man would want to crossdress and be with a woman. I always had the question of why be a lesbian when you don't have to be. Maybe my view of sex is a little one sided, maybe. I'll explain. I like a masculine/feminine balance when I'm with a guy and I like to be the feminine part. I never liked gay porn for that reason; 2 built, muscular guys going at it.
So, I interact only with males sexually. It does seem borderline transsexual as for the reasons why I crossdress and why I enjoy it.

@Barbara: When I was choosing my female name, Barbara was one of my final choices! lol. I'm like you, except I'm out of the closet. I am a feminine acting gay guy and easily read.
Very interesting we have the same kind of thoughts , even when I explained the same reasons why I like to crossdress to my therapist the other day
she still questioned herself if I was really gay or not