>>I'm actually asking those who are single without a current (understanding or otherwise) or previous SO or partner/girlfriend/boyfriend in life before you started acting on your new or other lifestyle.
Wow... That really narrows down who can respond and what they'll probably be able to say.
It's said, after all, "That nothing succeeds like success."
Ask only people who haven't been having much luck how it's going and you're not going to get a lot of happy noise...
This reminds me of my "friends" after my divorce - years ago - and before I hooked up and married my wife. Talk about "birds of a feather!"
What I noticed was, "Nothing fails like failure." Honestly, because I was the new "odd man out" I met a lot of guys who had been having no luck for years.
It struck me, however, that it was THEM, not the ladies they kept getting ignored by.
When my second wife died, I did all the Internet dating stuff that people do now and saw it from the other side. I had had a long "successful" marriage, and now I was meeting a lot of women who'd failed... Again, "It's not them, it's you!" Only this time it was the women who were out of luck.
There's good news and bad news here. If you're having problems, it's YOU that may be the problem. That said, YOU can do something about that.
I have known, and know, many TS, TG, CDs who are attractive, busy, happy folks. If people like something about you, they like you and overlook a lot of "the other stuff."
You're not just TS, TG, CD... You're much more than that. Something else may be putting people off... Figure out what it is, apologize for it, and make some changes.
Plenty of good people to have a life with... But, it all starts with you thinking you are one of them - and making it obvious to someone else.
