Is your wife jealous of your femininity?

[SuzanneBender]

She had some good points to make, about men horning in on women's space by doing it part time, doing only the "icing" on the cupcake part, and so forth.

As someone who eats only the top of the muffin I find nothing wrong with only the icing on the cupcake. In my opinion everyone's life could use a few more muffin tops and less stumps.

I enjoy the things I do get to do, and let her know that she will never have to worry about hair - both the overabundance of it and the chore of removing it en masse. She won't have to worry about a shorter lifespan on average, and other things. There are benefits of being a man. There are benefits of being a woman. There are downsides to both.

You know sis I never thought of it that way. I fuss about body hair constantly. Not only do I have to shave my entire cro magnon body on almost a daily basis I must shave my face too. Whats up with that! And that dying early thing that really stinks. I want reparations!!!!!

Ultimately this isn't about fair or unfair. Its about acceptance and roles more than biology. In today's world the lines of gender seem to blend more and more each generation. Bottom line she gets to do things because of her gender that I am jealous of and I am sure vice versa, but working through that I what truly makes for a loving relationship. Your right MK love is not about competition its about cooperation.