As usual, I agree with one of my favorite GG's on this site. Reine offers some very good advice. I am not sure I'd be comfortable with all the porn sites she will encounter in her search for good information about what being a CD is really all about. I'd strongly encourage you to ask her to join here or at least read the posts together. Sit down wiht her and sign in and let her find the topics that will give her the answers she really wants to know.