Long story short, I did a past-life regression with my wife, a friend, and ten or so other women we did not know. The hypnotist put me in a corner where I felt I had to admit I crossdressed, which I did. But I keep wondering if I could have avoided that. It didn't bother me, but it probably bothered my wife and she's been pushing back since then.
Long story long can be found in my blog.