Yeah I know but some of my family are kind of invasive...I never had much privacy when I was living at home, anyone would just barge into my room at anytime. Maybe I just need to get out of that fearful state of mind, lol.
I think getting out of that fearful state of mind is the key. even if you cleverly stash all your things, there's always the chance that someone will drop by unexpectedly. You can almost bet on it.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.