I have never been in a chat room. I always wanted to try but after reading about that im not sure if I want to. I can let most things go but I just dont know.....
I am sorry that happened to you
Don't forget that there are a lot of people who are e-hard. That means more often than not, the person acting stupid is some pimple-faced teenager who is acting all tough on a chat room.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.