Lil Sissy Stevie, Thanks for sharing your story with us. It's interesting to know how others came to be the way they are concerning their dominance or submissiveness. Just like the way we came to be crossdressers. Many are similar but with a twist and others found their way to CD later in life etc.
But you made me think. Maybe the connection is that when we were growing up, it was always Daddy as the head of household. The housewife more or less submitted to her husband. So maybe our wanting to be submissive to a GG is a subconscious desire to be like the way it was when we were growing up. Many men think of women as being submissive, so it's natural that when we crossdress, we may see ourselves as submissive like the women around us when we were kids.
I am submissive to no one but the lady I love. Other then that, I am not a bit submissive to anyone including at work. I admit, I am not one to take orders well from a supervisor or manager. I have butted heads with several. Almost got me fired a time or two. But then again, I have owned my own business and I have been a manager in other businesses. So my tolerance for poor managers is low. lol