Mine is an interesting situation. I don't have a SO, so no problems there. I do, however have two roommates, who have two young children. My roommates do not know about Jessica, so I do not dress about the house except for in the basement where my room is. I have been out on several occasions however, and am getting more comfortable with it. I'm still worried about friends and family finding out however, because I don't know how many of them would accept this part of me. When I do go out I don't as a rule wear skirts or dresses, but rather pants or jeans. It's just part of my comfort zone. So I guess you could say I am kinda in between the two groups, and I'm happy there.