Hi Reine,
Linda's intentions might have been well & good, however if you are going to join a transgender community to try & work out where you fit into that community then I don't believe this is the way to do it - especially in a community of transsexuals with a LOT more experience than yourself. There is nothing in her post that indicates any of intention to find out where she fits in here. Is all it has done is shown the rest of the community how limited her understanding about transgender issues really is. I think that most of the ensuing discussion has been very informative and helpful and I hope also the video I just posted also teaches her & others here how fluid gender & sexuality really is and why it cant ever be so simply defined and labelled.
PS: So why didn't you manage to find away to organise it all Reine? Did you realise that it was a mammoth task & virtually impossible to define?