I'm not discriminating at all! I know full well I live in a glass house. It's just unfamiliar territory. My gf has several gay friends, and I suspect I'll have opportunities to find out what gay bars are like.
It probably bears mentioning that any time my sexuality has ever come come up with someone who knows me enfemme, they are very surprised to find out I'm not gay. Based on my experience, I'd say that nearly 100% of people outside the community think crossdressers are gay. I guess I've been thought to be gay often enough that I'm rather comfortable with it. It doesn't matter. It would be ridiculous to be homophobic when so often I'm thought to be gay.
