Hi Marla,

Very good thread.For me it has to be joining this site and finding out that I am not a wierdo(well maybe a little).One month after joining I was able to come out to my Psychiatrist and my wife.There is no more hiding,no more scary darkness in the closet where I felt safe but always frightened about being caught.
The most important thing,for me,was learning to accept myself.I have all the girls,past and present to thank for that.