Thanks Nicole i Know you werent trying to be negative and to answer your question they did ask me and the oly way I could answer with a brand new marraige house kids family ife was ok I would try, but the bottom line is my wife wanted me cured, just by what my wife says I just dont think she could accept her husband as a crossdresser, and she has basically told me that
Thanks Sara, my wife does ask my opinion but then before I can answer inserts the answers she wants to hear, and also that is why in our last discussion I brought up the possibility of me going out totally dressed out of town to see what it was all about, but that when she stopped me and said but how could you do that without crossing the boundaries that she is comfortable with, and I get it, i put the shoe on the other foot and I would probably be the same way especially if I didnt sign up for it. So I kind of know where she is coming from
Hi Gaby I agree everyone is great thats why I love this forum, boy our situations sound very similiar, I too would still love her if we divorced, I would hope she would find her 100% man, I really want her to be happy too. Tell me now that you are divorced do you dress more, go out as Gaby, enjoy the freedom of crossdressing and being yourself?
Loni thansk for the advice I hear what you mean there is alot to consider especially with everything we built together to imagine that gone, we have friends that have divorced and it isnt pretty. We fight now about finances imagine having two separate households wow.
Thanks Shelly I do think you right about offering my freedom but in a weak moment I almost beleive she hats to see me so down about life and thinks maybe if I was free to persue what it is I think i want maybe I would be happy and that would make her happy, but I just cant help to think that only exists in a perfect world, once the dust settles and everyone gets involved I know I would be outed and at that point even though it would be hard I would have to accept it.
Thanks Marla, great story I feel in my heart that is what I would be doing and I just dont know if the end result would be me living as I would like dressing and going out as Jessica or would I be in the closet and lonely and still just dress at home.