I remember when I was married I had just started to dress again after quite a few years of putting it on the back burner and had desed wearing some black high heeled ankle strap sandals and black capi pants and a halter top. Well wouldn't you know it I fel asleep on the bed and when the wife came home after work and to change to go play co-ed softball she came upstairs and found me. Question was " WTF ", and she stated she was leaving me when she came home from the game. We went to dinner two nights later saying we could talk and of course she asked me if I was gay, to which I responded no and had made up the story that the clothes were from a halloween costume from years prior to meeting and being with her. I was under the impresion we were going to be able to talk about things and then she informed me she wanted a divorce. All said and done I later found she had been having an affair for 2 1/2 years. I have only indulged myself into this even further since then with stronger and stronger desires, which is what finally led me to joiniong here after luring in the visiting shadow for years, which by the way has cost me thousands of dollars to continue to emulate a female formand be comfortable when I do try and make myself presentable in public. It has been awhile since I have been out dressed because of other issues but unable to find the time and place because of my ever increasing work schedule and obligations with my daughter.
