I feel for you! Been there done that and it still bothers me to talk about it. That was twenty some years ago! I agree with every one else get help with her if at all possible! I didn't have anyone to talk to back then and ended up with only the blouse on my back! I wish I had a computer back then. But my ordeal is not whats important here. Yours is and if she loves you she will not leave over this! Give her time to cool down what ever time it takes! Then I say, tell, don't ask her that we are going to a Therapist! I hope the best for you! And don't be a stranger to this site PLEASEEEE!