It sounds like the two of you are handling this the ideal way. If you are worried that she might be jealous, be sure to reaffirm how beautiful she is and how much you love her. As she asked, take her on a date as man and wife where she can dress up a little bit and you wear your handsomest guy outfit. I think it important that she realizes that you are still her husband and she is still your wife. If, when you are with her en femme, she makes comments about how pretty you are, thank her, but tell her you "could never be as pretty as her." I have a good feeling that if you don't get lost in the "pink fog" and start to push things to quickly, that this will work out well for both of you.
