Quote Originally Posted by ReineD View Post
Jody ... it is only women like themselves who stay there. Others move on and come here!

Seriously, there's no amount of hate mongering that will will poison a GG against the CDing if she has a good relationship with her husband to begin with.
Thanks, I needed to hear that. I stumbled upon it on a google search, and found myself reading for a while wanting to gain knowledge from a different perspective. There was a couple who were simply ate up with hate and I could feel it. The sad part was they were spreading it in the disguise of trying to be helpful to a person who is in a confused state of mind and trying to understand the concept. The advice given to a few was horrible ideas for anyone who wanted to try and keep a marriage together. I don't think I will be back to continue reading. My S.O. and I have a good relationship and have found a balance. She appreciates the attributes that being part girl in the brain have brought to the relationship. She came from another marriage with a husband who did not seem to be caring or want to allow her to be herself at all. From what she has told me, I hope I can be everything he wasn't because she deserves the best. Even if she did not understand or accept my being born a CD, I swear she is truly an angel. A very rare find indeed. Thanks again for the kind words.