My story is probably like many others on this site. I can recall dressing in panties probably as far back as 12. It felt right but socital norms caused me to be ashamed of it and suppress it. I grew up, went to school and built a life. Fast forward 28 years and now I am married with 3 boys and a business. My wife has.known about my dressing for a few yearsl as she has found items of mine but I always brushed it off. I always associated my dressing with a stress relief but it always came back. Now for the change. Last August my wife told me that she no longer feels "that kind of love" for me and so we move forward. What hurt me the most was that she said this to me just days before we went on a family holiday to Disney with the kds and my inlays. It was hell. As we move forward with our divorce I now know that my dressing is a part of me that I don't wish to give up and this acceptance has lifted a weight off my shoulders. I will find a therapist and talk to them but I know in my heart that Stephanie will be a part of my future. My boys will still love me, th sun will still rise and if my wife doesn't change her attitude she will drive the kids away from her which is Ok with me. Here's to better days to come.