It took me a while to find the proper spot but its there somewhere keep looking.
If you have a large unit pulling it back hurts the overall look IMO so if you can scrunch it a bit and use tight panties or cut off the legs of an old pair of panty hose so you have something to hold the monster down you should be fine.
By hurting the look I mean if your jeans don't come up high enough in the crotch area to look female it throws the jeans look off.
I don't have much down there so its not a problem.
First pic are mid rise jeans.Second are low rise and pretty tight.
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