Thank you all for your kind responses.
Though I'm sure that there are people here on this site who agree with the feelings of the person holding this party, at least they had the manners not to jump in.
As I said, I understand being excluded, I simply don't understand the incredibly insulting response. I do realize that many people are insecure in themselves, not just crossdressers, and feel it necessary to lash out at anything that makes them uncomfortable. It's a defense mechanism that has grown in leaps and bounds with the relative anonimity of the Internet.
And Michelle, it's OK to come to PA, this event is going on one state further east
