Wow, there's so much in your opinion that lends itself to thoughtful consideration.

I think the most concise way to reply is, and of course this is speaking for myself, that while you point out that you cannot know what it is to be male, or to be TG, the way I feel each and every day is that I cannot really fathom what it is to be male because all I know is TG. My heart & soul are wired female, and it's fair to assume my brain is as well. This has served me well in relationships as well as career, having what I believe to be a true feminine perspective. I know nothing else, just as the average person out there cannot even fathom what it's like to have gender as an issue to varying degrees 24/7/365. I cherish my perspective despite the torment it brings to my entire being.