I am from Edmonton, and would like to meet someone like that, who dresses, and has a signifigant other that knows. My wife has been awesome, and it has been a heckuva journey, and knows all about "the urge. I would love to meet a couple that understands, and has a bit of fun with it. I do not go out dressed, but that does not mean that some stay in fun dressing up, having a few beers, and hanging out would not be fun. I remain hopeful.