What if crossdressing was highly accepted by society? Would you feel differently about it? I suppose no one would be in the closet any longer But for those of us who have come out and dress in public frequently, would your feeling about crossdressing change at all?
I wouldn't find it as exciting, to be totally honest with you. I really enjoy the excitement of shopping or dining out dressed as a woman and actually passing to some unknown degree. I love the experience. It is as though I have a secret. Please don't get me wrong; dressing femininely is when I feel most free and natural and I don't treat it like a game. I've never had a desire to participate in an extreme sport, either.
But I find something enticing about living a life so authentically and on the fringe. Presenting my self as a woman is a true reflection of my internal self. It is very rewarding to be authentic at the risk of ridicule or harm. It takes a lot of courage to remain relaxed while navigating a crowded mall, theater, or restaurant with your head held high and smiling at everyone who makes eye contact with you.
I've had several encounters with both women and men who knew I was really a male in body, and to receive their understanding, respect, and enthusiasm was just so amazing. If crossdressing was totally accepted, we wouldn't have those special experiences.
I'm very interested to hear others' thoughts on this.