Frederique,
Your post is kinda confusing. It can mean anything, which is one of the confusing points of the whole thing.
Do you use gay as in...
Being happy? (the old worldy way of using the word gay)
Being female and sexually liking women? (I guess that makes me gay when I am dressed)
Or being a male in female clothing and being sexually attracted to men?
I am just curious if you were playing a fun game with the term.
I don't. LOL. I just want us to get to a point IT DOESN'T MATTER. That's all. I would like to get to a point where if I am out in a skirt and heels my sexual orientation does not enter into it. It is just a clothing choice.When we finally get to the point where we don't think of ourselves as strange or perverted maybe we can address the idea that we all want sex with guy.
Now that would make me "gay"
Sananigans,
I have seen much animosity in the gay comunity toward Bisexuals. There is one radio host around here that has voiced such. He is very anti unity with other outside groups "Bi-sexual, transgendered"
Frankly I have to return to how sad it is that one group of minorities, will discriminate against another group of minorities.
Is it possible that you slap happy friend is a closeted lesbian. Why would would she react like this.
Oh, and at least around here, being gay cannot be grounds to be terminated from your job, it is no longer though of as a mental disorder worthy of having certificates and ratings you worked hard for being revoked, and is usually not grounds for someone being denied a job, or for that matter a love life. (). So yes, in many ways to be gay in our society is easier than being a straight crossdresser.
