my wife found a stash (not everything), but it was the most important stuff. she was absolutely furious and shocked. she didn't think i 'struggled' with this anymore and had no idea i was dressing. so, the future is uncertain. my marriage is infinitely more important to me than dressing or being transgender. so, while i felt ok doing it while she was ignorant, to do it now violates her trust. and my makeup, underwear, wig and a few other things went in a dumpster and are on their way to a landfill somewhere.
i know many of you will say that i'll be back in the saddle again soon, but i dont know. i even deleted all my pics!!!! that was the hardest thing ive done in a long time. (tho, i still have an old hard drive with some on it) but many are lost forever. aaaahhhhgg! i guess thats my first purge.
i may not be around much, but i'll check in from time to time. thanks to everyone for your support and kindness.
the individual formerly known as kaley