Why crossdressing doesn't work...

[sissystephanie]

I will start off by saying that I have been a CD over 20 years longer than you!! Yes, I am old!! In that time period I have done just about everything that any crossdresser could do, except anything to do with males or being in a drag show! My late wife always did my makeup and fixed my wig when I went out in public so I could easily pass!! She has been gone for 6 years, but I still go out in public dressed completely enfemme!! But, I wear no wig or makeup!! Just a guy in a skirt! Try that for a difference in your life!! The amazing thing is that in 6 years I have not had one single negative comment made to me. I have had lot of women ask me where I bought the skirt or top, but that is all!! Like I said, try it for a totally different lifestyle!!

[Karren H]

Personally I don't know why we think we have to keep pushing upward and onward. If I never did any more than I do now I'd be happy. Hell if I never crossdressed again id be satisfied that I did so much more than I ever expected to.

[Cynthia Anne]

The definition of human is: NEVER SATISFIED! Don't try to change it because wont be satisfied with the results!

[meri]

Cristi,
What you are describing is ego, it is never satisfied and always wants more, more, more. Take a step aside from that part of your mind and observe it's behavior. Where you go from here is to better understand yourself and your motivations. Once you truly understand, the craving will stop and you can enjoy peace of mind again. Look up an author called "Eckhart Tolle" on Amazon and buy any of his books. He is a bit off the wall at first, but by reading, you will truly understand yourself better and the drive for more, more, more will cease...and it has to cease, because as you pointed out, where do you go from here?

[Loretta]

Cristi,
What you are describing is ego, it is never satisfied and always wants more, more, more. Take a step aside from that part of your mind and observe it's behavior. Where you go from here is to better understand yourself and your motivations. Once you truly understand, the craving will stop and you can enjoy peace of mind again. Look up an author called "Eckhart Tolle" on Amazon and buy any of his books. He is a bit off the wall at first, but by reading, you will truly understand yourself better and the drive for more, more, more will cease...and it has to cease, because as you pointed out, where do you go from here?

Purge? It's really the only thing I can think of.
After purging, wait around 6 months to start collecting again. It's costly, but it allows you the opportunity to find a new wardrobe, new styles, etc. Or you could just not dress as often.

[josee]

Perhaps the next step would be to go to a wider audience. Offer yourself to speak at colleges or corporate diversity training programs. You could gain a higher level of acceptance for us all by showing that we're not all a bunch of creeps. You could present a normal everyday image of a happy well adjusted guy who happens to enjoy or feel comfortable wearing typicaly feminine clothing. Perhaps this is your higher calling?