Although I have never purged, it is always sad to me when I hear how many times many girls have. A very important thing to remember is that while you cross dress with clothing, the clothing doesnt make you a crossdresser. You are a crossdresser with or without the clothing: the clothing simply serves as a tactile visual. If crossdressing is in your heart, if it is part of you, throwing away clothing doesnt "throw" away the crossdresser. That is why the urge always comes back. It will ALWAYS come back because there is nothing that can give us the release or connection that dressing does- not golf, not fishing, not even therapy- nothing...
If your clothing is causing a problem at home, rent a small storage unit or pack your things up and let a good friend put them in their attic. Wives may not know this but we are better husbands when we are close to our feminine side.
Vanity Wilde
