I find your post very surprising, Lola! U sound like a young newlywed, not a 50 something that's been married for awhile!
By the way, that's A GOOD THING! Looking at things with young eyes and a positive attitude may help carry u both on a fun ride to a happy future!
However, as a newbie never forget! You're just looking over the edge! One little slip and you're SUDDENLY FALLING DOWN THE RABBIT HOLE! Eek!
And, I wonder why u selected the name, "Lola"? Remember the song? "Whatever Lola wants, Lola gets!" A bit worrisome!