Honestly, the asnwer has changed over the years moving incrementally towards wanting to spend more and more time as a woman. I don't know that circumstances will ever permit me to be, but I have to say, yes, in many respects I "want" to be a woman. That being said, my realities are much like yours...I don't foresee being fully out to everyone in my life and work...so I'll remain, part time. Its really not a bad compromise.
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I sometimes wish I had been born a woman, but I really enjoy being a man and have no desire to under go surgery or to transition.
That said, I'm curious, how man of us would appreciate femininity if we had been born a woman? I mean the only time my wife wears really pretty or sexy clothes its when its for me.
Oh what a question. I regret my sex so much. I should have been a girl. I love everything about them. They can look pretty, dress and walk sexy, buy beautiful clothes...
I love dressing up so much and I take a whole day to prepare. I love shaving my legs and painting my toe nails. I have to say that I am not a very aggressive person and I don't have the nerve to go into a beauty shop to buy lipstick. I buy my lipstick from the supermarket 7:00 in the morning and I go to the self checkout.
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Hi Annie, Not really I just love dressing like a woman.
If I was a woman I probably would have been a F to M CD.
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Sometimes I have those deep feelings that are womanly, and feel: "Why am I struggling so much to be a man in the everyday world? So much hiding, stress,
taking on a false self" I guess I have more of a road to go to self-acceptance, exploration, and going deep.......
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Yes, I would want to be a woman. I feel I have the heart and soul of a woman and if I knew back, maybe 20 years ago, what I know now I would have had SRS. Thank God though, I am content with my life and don't fret about it.
In that case you definitely don't need the stress of transitioningOriginally Posted by Donna June
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yes i want to be a woman. If i could go back in time and change up the chromosomes a little i would.
Nah! Thought about it for years. Wanted a vagina and to get rid of the thing between my legs that I hated. Now years later I would rather dress when I feel like it and not have to fem up 24/7.
yes...if I could flick a switch I would be a woman in a heartbeat x
No. I enjoy being a guy a lot of the time. From what I can gather, my dressing stems from how wonderful my wife is. I always want to be like her when I dress. She drives everything in me.
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[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]Lipstick, high heels, panties and mini skirt...that's me!!! Farrah
I would transition if the time was different. I am making changes that I and my wife can live with, such as shaving and laser to the beard. But I have made committments that I feel I should keep. If things change though I would transition.
Do I want to be a woman? No - I certainly enjoy some of my maleness.
Would I want some femme features to be real / permanent - resounding YES
Would I want to live full time femme but keep the "man parts" - resounding YES
I'm selfish - I want the best of both worlds!
I love female clothing! I love the female figure and form!
I want the shape & the clothing while keeping the man-part too
The answer is...I AM A WOMAN! Oh...you meant physical in body. If God let me wake up tomorrow as a GG I would throw a party. But after the pain and fight I went through after the stroke...I am not volunteering for more pain, or more pain for my kids.
Em
Living with a heel in each world.
NO.
I would just like one thing ...... to be present in a world where people like ourselves are totally accepted and understood .
One can dream .
No. I couldn't give up the life I have worked so hard on.
with that being said, I would love to spend one day as a woman so I could get out and be confident.
I do like some aspects of being male. If truth be told not too many aspects though. I would not want surgery but I must admit that I have often thought that I would like to live 24/7 dressed.
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Not permanently but If I could just switch back and forth I would love it. If I could just change shape to a 5ft 5 120lb little pretty lady I would probably do it every other weekend. And still have the life I do now. I know that's not even close to possible but it's fun to think about.
I would definitely love to have smooth, hairless skin, long hair and c-cup breasts. I believe I would keep what's between my legs though. Somehow I find that very sexy.
I have loved my years living as a woman, but I am too chicken to have any type of surgery done.
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Yes, I want to be a woman with all of the good and bad that goes with it, my feelings to be female have only grown stronger over the years. While I do not regret who I am or who I was born as my overwhelming desire to be everything XX consumes me. I will continue to live both lifestyles out of apprehension and maybe fear so my real hope would possibly be reincarnation.
This. As just another women it wouldn't be anything special.
Yes a woman please... Its funny people are like "if you find a Jeanie what would your three wishes be... Easy answer 1st wish to be a beautiful woman who could model for her career, second to be 20 again, third that everyone in my life knew me as a woman like it has always been the case! Life would be perfect!
This something that I have kicked around for a few days since reading this thread. My answer is no, and the reason is I could become a woman and have no one to answer to except myself as you all know that have read my posts I can g 24/7 as a woman with no problem in fact I do quite often even at my job.
My main reason I am very femme acting I do not date other men or do I date women, I go out and have social evening with my girl friends and work associates i even have danced with men at some of the clubs we go to these are not dives they are upscale entertainment venues and the discussion has come up about my transitioning to a woman, I have talked to our resident phsyc at length on this and what I myself have determined is that no I could never be a real woman, in appearance yes in my heart no I would not have the proper tools of a woman although I have been dressing since I was 6 or7 years old I couldn't do it. the dancing is another thread that I may post. things at one time got a little sticky.
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