Another coming out to SO thread

[Karren H]

I'd dump her she dosen't accept you and the CDing doesn't go away! Of course if you're as assertive with your needs as she has been with hers you might be able to come to an accord until then she kinda has you by the B#$%^

While I kind of agree with you about parting ways... But not wanting something isn't really a "need"... Especially since it wasn't disclosed before the relationship started..

From her standpoint, it's like buying a blue car with leather seats that turns pink with white satin seats after 3 years... You hate pink and it won't change back to blue even though you try to repaint it again and again...... So trade it in on a new one... Or run it over a cliff!! Lol.