My first time was at a mall in the middle of the day. I was found out immediantly and laughed at by two girls. Since then I have only gone out at night.
My first time was at a mall in the middle of the day. I was found out immediantly and laughed at by two girls. Since then I have only gone out at night.
Having been a crossdresser for 70 + years, I can't remember where I went out to the first time. I am not even sure that I can remember where I went out to last month!!! Since I grew up in Portland, Oregon I am sure it was somewhere in the downtown!! There were a number of large department stores there, and I always spent time in them!! Oh yes, I was most likely in my early teens since I started crossdressing at age 6!! I do know that I had a wig then that had belonged to a relative, and still looked pretty good! Don't remember if I got laughed at or not, but probably did!!
Stephanie
Lady on the outside, but man underneath!
My first time was for a Halloween party in 1983.I didn't have a wardrobe to speak of, but was able to borrow clothes, shoes, and a wig from women I worked with. They thought it was a hoot that I would do that. I was wearing a nice pair of 4" strappy heels, and I remember hearing a woman say to another--he walks way too well in those heels. Opps!
other than that, I had a great time at the party.
Jodi
I went for a long walk, in a well light city. If was about 25 years ago and with my wife, at the time.
[SIZE="3"] My first time was alone, to a wig salon. I was 50 years young. I arrived fully enfemme with my male hair as fem as possible. I was treated very well.
I then headed out shopping wearing my new wig. I had a great time even though I got a few stares. [/SIZE]
Marcia (LOVES) Blue
The Cherry Blossom festival in Washington, DC. The weather was perfect and the lighting was very low when I took a stroll around the Tidal Basin at the Jefferson Memorial. It was about 10 pm and the walk was sparsely populated. I have no idea if the light was bright enough for others to read me, but the blossoms were beautiful, the air had a sweet scent, and the sense of calm was wonderful.
Liz
The first time? It was a bout 1990 and I was not totally enfemme, just a skirt and blouse that didn't go together, at a mall far, far from town. I didn't really do much after that for many years. Tried to repress the urge and purged. Dressed at home on and off through-out the years. About 3 years ago I started going out, walking around the neighborhood late at night when darkness hides a lot of flaws. I live in a very safe town, lucky for me. Just this August I shaved, dressed and went to a mall, movie and McDonalds in a town 100 miles from me. It was a good experience, no one laughed and I completely enjoyed myself. I consider this as my 1st real outing enfemme.
AnitaH
Mine was on my birthday two years ago. I went to an Ulta for a make-up lesson. So I went in with only foundation on which tweaked my nerves just a touch more. But it was a great birthday present and a good time. Was just too easy....
My first outing was at a mall , lets just say Ive learned a lot since then .Ive got way better at applying make up , wearing the correct fitting clothes and walking in my new high heels .
Halloween 1982. I went to a party hosted by a friend from work that was loaded with co-workers. Wore a mid-thigh denim skirt, turtle-neck, black boots with 3 1/2 heels, blond wig, makeup and three layers of tan tights/pantyhose (to cover leg hair). Immediately clocked as a CD from a Chicago couple who had recently moved to my no-where small town. The outfit was too well done, and that was a give-away to them. I laughed it off and most others enjoyed it without thinking too much about it, at the time.
I went out the first time on September 2 this year. I drove to the gas station about 11 at night and got gas. That went okay, so I walked into the QT and bought cigarettes. I went to Wally World a couple of days later. I went by myself both times.
man, i feel like a woman
Its going to be my first time in a couple weeks from now, I'll let you know how it goes. I'm sure I will get the jitters at some point because I'm going to stay at an expensive hotel in our city and I will have to walk through the main lobby and hang out the front for a cab. I won't be dressing down. Big, puffy, ball gown, fur coat here we go!
you are looking back now. :DOriginally Posted by erickka
If i discount my drives and my nervous walks, the first time i went to a public place was at uni. I think bravery must have come over me in waves that day, or i was in the frame of mind where i just wanted people to know or to see me, but anyhow, i went to the university library. Looking back it could have been really disastrous, the number of people i could have bumped into, but didn't. I tried to be confident but was terrified and was probably over made-up by quite a way, but there we go, im not proud of my presentation back then, but i sure am proud that i managed to get myself out there.
x Flic x
The first times (And actually only times, slightly sadly >.<), actually happened several times, that I would consider my "first" >.<
The very first time that I actually went out as Rhonda, I ended up walking with my fiance about halfway into town to visit our town's DQ (we lived a couple miles into the country, and had no access to the household car >.<)... and I was wearing a pair of shoes that hurt like heck about halfway down the road >.< It was pretty much a disaster because of the shoes... though we ended up laughing because we had turned down a ride into town from a few guys
The next time was a lot better though... I had actually gotten a fair pair of high-heeled boots this time (I like wearing them, even though they make me self-conscious :P) and we decided to walk to the (MUCH closer than DQ :P) gas station to buy dinner. That time we walked, and everything went beautifully, if I probably was blushing (something that I've always had :P I did drama stuff in High School, and the director even pointed out that I didn't need blush on stage XD) the entire time that we were there :P
The last time that I've gone out in public, (I still consider it a first because I actually went somewhere, and it was in the daylight :P) we went over to our town's Wal-Mart for some random stuff, and we decided to just have me go en femme. It went fine, though I did notice a pair of girls looking at me oddly, which worried me, but the real scare didn't come until we were in the line for checkout. We got in line behind someone, and I noticed after a few beats that it was a teacher I had in grade school (I'm the kind of person who's friendly to people, unless they're blatantly rude to me :P), and at that point she turned and looked at me... Either I looked different enough between the last time I had run into her though, or she didn't connect the face to the female body, and nothing was said >.<, so it was a good experience :D
my First time out i went to burger king in a short denim skirt and white high heels and a white blouseit was a rush
I ventured out for the very first time - into my own front yard to move a sprinkler! I just couldn't bring myself to change back into drabs for a 2 minute task. Anyway, the world did not end. Within a few days, I'd mustered the resolve to get a make-over, come out to my hair dresser, shop at a nearby mall and get a few drinks at a gay bar.
Sounds like my story, I went out to a strip mall, and walked into a drug store, was instantly spotted by to young teenage girls that stalked me around the store, trying to get a better look, and giggling loud enough to be heard at a pretty good distance, After a couple of minutes trying to lose them . I gave up and headed for the car, I've never gone out again, and get a ball in the pit of my stomach just thinking of going out anymore. Even when I've tried going out for a ride in my van, if a car approaches, instinctively I put my arm over my chest, and suck my lips in, so the lipstick is not noticeable, then I feel like an idiot, and go home feeling miserable. I now live in a town, that I wouldn't go out in, even if I was not so bothered by doing it, so I guess it's no big deal anymore. Besides, the wife prefers me to keep it at home anyway, so it works for the best I guess.
Tina B.
Magic is the art of changing consciousness at will.
Where was ur first time
it was on the hill behind my dorm at boarding school.......OH! you mean going out dressed as a woman....sorry!
I think I went to some 24 hour big box store.
Re: Where was ur first time
After doing the driving thing, getting out in a deserted area and walking around for five minutes. First time went to a movie theater in La Grange, IL fully dressed as a female. So five minutes of exposure to the public going in and out through the lobby.Guess really was when I went to a private club in Plantation, FL for a surprise birthday party for Terri the owner of Fantasies In Lace store in Hollywood, FL, about 1988. FIL store has been closed for quite a while but FIL has an online store.
My very first time was to a friend's Halloween party.
Other than that my first time "in public" was to Vanity Fair outlet mall in Pennsylvania with my wife.
Now I can't remember all the places I've been and things we've done.
I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !
Technically (whatever that means, lol), it was over 15 years ago, just before I filed for divorce. It was more for disguise purposes than anything else. It enabled me to go downtown and sit on a park bench directly across the street from the outdoor patio where my wife (now ex-wife) was enjoying another intimate lunch with yet another “boyfriend” (which she would later claim was a figment of my imagination, as usual).
That was an interesting period in my life…lol. The bright side is that it did convince me I was capable of successfully blending in with the pigeons when I was dressed.:D
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1993....denim midi skirt, blue silk button down shirt buttoned at the top, a pair of 2" hoop earrrings (pierced), black knit hose, and mary jane shoes while at Coffee Connection on Newbury St in Boston, Mass. .....I went out solo, and frightened to death.
I think the large amount of people within close proximity freaked me out.
I did the walks in the yard or trips to the motel ice machine at 3 a.m., but those didn't involve a real possibility of being around other people. My first was a long walk in uncomfortable shoes from a Motel on Tropicana Blvd. in Las Vegas to the MGM Grand and back. Scared the bejezzus out of me and made me think I would never, ever go out in public again, it hurt my feet, made me realize I was over dressed in a poor style and I needed to improve my home made breast forms. So I when I got back to the room I changed clothes to something simple; slacks and a solid color top, more comfortable shoes and went to a different casino the same night.
Sarah
Being transgender isn't a lifestyle choice. How you deal with it is.
I went for a ride in the car. I drove downtown, got wet feet and returned home.
My secon venture was again downtown. I parked, went for a short walk, then returned home.
My third outing was in the car on an interstate. I drove about 60 miles returning home.
Finally about the fourth time, I went to a club to meet another CD. I was nervous as a long tail cat in a room full of rocking chairs but I had fun. Of course the Amaretto sour on ice may have helped my fortitude to stay for more than a nano-second.
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KarenS
I love being a woman! :D
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