There ya go... you learned something about somebody that changed your opinion of them after they died.

This is, unfortunately, one of the biggest fears most crossdressers are traumatized by on a daily basis. Crossdressers have so much stress and societal bvllshit to deal with, and aside from losing our jobs, losing our families is even harder to deal with.

This is "why" crossdressers "lie" to their significant others.



Quote Originally Posted by Lea Paine View Post
Fears? No, but I do think about it. There have been a few things I learned about relatives after they passed away that affected how I thought about them, and that bothers me. I don't want to burden my children (particularly) in that way. I do want to be free to be myself, though, more so all the time, it seems.

Lea