Gurls,
It was back in June of 2011 that I made a post about my up coming battle with my exwife for more parenting time, and how I knew she would bring out my past and crossdressing. As I expected she brought all her emails, pictures, etc to the Friend of the Court investigator to review, as we both sat there in front of this person either of us had ever met she made my crossdressing center and the focal point of how she did not want me to have more parenting time with our son. The investigator listened, suggested that I seek out a professional therapist for support and someone to talk to about my crossdressing. I did as the court advised and even though I originally did so to appease the court my therapist has been a tremendous help. I am so glad that this has happened.
I am also very happy to report that the investigator has found me to be a fit and sound parent, who is responsible enough to know that my crossdressing is not something that I share with my son at this time. I take many precautions to protect him at this point from finding out his father dresses like a woman and likes to wear womans panties. The investigator granted me 50/50 parenting time and even commented on how brave and courageous i was to fight for my sons time even though I knew my exwife was going to make my crossdressing which has always been a taboo topic for me an issue.
I just want you gurls to know that there are some good open minded people out there and that some truly do look out for the best interest of the child, i was worried and very concerned at first but it has been such a relief to know that 1. my ex can not hold this over my head anymore, 2. my son loves me no matter what and wants equal time with me, 3. i have a supportive gf that has helped me deal with my crossdressing and has been so very supportive and strong through all of this 4. there are people that realize that just because you like to wear womans clothes, wear panties, dress as a female, even act like a female that you have the parental right of equal time. So gurls be strong, if you believe you deserve equal time, fight, fight fight for it. I am so glad i did.
Trisha