Going to meet an admirer Monday.

[Shananigans]

Definitely stay safe... As a woman, I could never imagine doing what you are planning to do.

I hope all goes well, and it's all you had hoped it would be. I personally think admirers are very weird because they are objectifying and treating you as a means to a fetish. I don't like people that have amputee fetishes either, and it seems the along the same lines of objectification.

But, everyone has their thing and two consenting adults are two consenting adults.

However, as a woman, I cannot begin to wrap my head around it.

Things like, "We are meeting during his lunch hour, so it won't be too long together!" Don't get it. Never will. I like men to worship me in the bedroom. I certainly wouldn't be there just because he had a kink for tall girls with big feet, for example. It's kind of like, "Oh, you are attracted to me because I'm tall and have big feet? You want to screw me because of this weird fetish of yours' and then be done with it? Thanks? I feel so hot right now?"

I guess we do a lot of things for a sense of validation.