ReineD, I want her to accept CDing so can be more open in new life style. Don' want life without her just accept CDing she doesn't have to participate look on it as my thing. She had brothers who were gay never bothered her just said that was their thing. Can not break up because her religous beliefs.
Last edited by wilt575; 10-26-2011 at 08:19 PM.
I'm doubtful that a new set of breasts--on you--will bring your wife around to your way of thinking. It seems to me that contrary to what you say, you would be forcing her to participate if you had implants or were able to grow your own. Or, do you expect she will never look at you again?
Last edited by Taylor186; 10-27-2011 at 11:50 AM.
Then we go back to having you talk to her, as I suggested in your other thread. There is no other way. Please do read the links I suggested, and open up communication with your wife.Originally Posted by wilt575
Reine
Wilt, after reading all the posts in this thread again since I responded the last time, I'm afraid I must share J'Lyn's views here.
You say in your original post:
I mean no offense....but that's a pretty selfish statement. I think you need to consider the feelings of your wife, front and foremost.Not worried about friends and family it's my life.
Reine has some great insight. Please check out the links she's posted, and really seriously think about this before making a pretty much irreversible decision.
Karren,
Your post is very interesting. I would love to hear more. I sent you a PM.
I agree with all comments that have been made. I have, in the past 15 or so years, met several
transexuals and a few who thought they were or wanted to be transexual. Some were very happy
and well adjusted. On the other hand I met a few who had deep regrets about their decision after
losing family and friends and espically the intimacy they once shared with a loving and supportive
wife. Sometime we fail to understand that wives can be supportive and try to be understanding
but lets face it everyone has a braking point. Anyone considering this should only begin after some
deep and intimate talks with their SO. Just my thoughts.
Last edited by Nigella; 11-07-2011 at 12:55 PM.
I didn't notice anyone mention what having your own breast full time, even in male mode, would do to your chances of employment. I don't what you do for a living, but I could see where having a great looking chest, could get in the way of a lot of job opportunities. As far as the wife and divorce, I'm not sure I understand why you can't get a divorce because it's against her believes, you said you don't care what friends and family think, and the court does not care about her religion when you file. It may sound like a sweet fantasy, but if you talk to men that have breast, it's often very limiting, and gets you attention you may not want.
Tina B.
Magic is the art of changing consciousness at will.
Listen to Donna T. There will be an increased chance of breast cancer. I had BC about 11 or 12 years ago that was corrected surgically. My breast are my own and I am almost a 'B' cup. It wasn't fun and it was quite embarrassing to have to go through it. Now every few years I need to get a mammogram. While waiting for my last one the nurse came out and in front of everyone in the waiting room said quite loudly "OK Mr._______! Its time for your mammogram!"
Needless to say I was quite embarrassed.
PM me and I'll share what I do and why..
Imho, there are two camps. Ones that want female breasts full time and ones that want the ability to present that that have female breasts when they crossdress but still want to not look like a guy with boobs when not enfemme.. I'm in the later group... And the advent of the "add 2 cup size" bras means if you can get yourself to a B cup ... Then you can present as a D enfemme.. How you get there really doesn't mater as long as it works for you AND you don't put you health at risk, also imho.
Talk to an experienced doctor. Mine are covered by insurance and reduce body hair growth, upper body strength, vein diameter, anger/aggression while enhancing emotional reaction, reversing a small amount of hair loss and developing breasts as well as hips/thighs.
The changes are permanent and differ in magnitude with the individual, so again, concult a doctor with experience in this.
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