I might suggest, ever so gently, that whether this is prioritization issue critically depends on whether the OP's CDing falls into the hobby, "just" dressing, "taste", etc. categories - or stems from something more fundamental. So sure, a guy won't prioritize a hobby down the list, then he's being a self-centered jerk. The OP needs to tread more carefully otherwise. The recency of the dressing doesn't necessarily make it more dismissable, either.
So again, elizabethamy, do you actually know yet what's going on in your head.