In male mode I was never considered a "big macho guy", and usually chosen last for team sports if at all! However when I accepted and ventured into the feminine world, I was considered average in most female attire. From lingerie to shoes to dresses, to skirts and jeans, my clothes are easy to find "off the rack" and definitely fit me better. I wear very few guy clothes - no matter what the event, and no one seems to care or comment. Learning to accept myself (stature) increased my confidence and I became more comfortable in enjoying life. Rather than becoming quite lengthy in content, please consider PMing me for more info.