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[JessHaust]

As you can see Jess your question has put a lot of the members here on the defensive.

I was never trying to put anybody on defense, I just wanted to know the story behind their Avatars.
I really don't think most took it badly, they are just honest about their feelings. I think some fear comes hand-in-hand with the CD/TG thing, I have certainly had my terrified moments. And although I have a much better grip on it now, it's still there, just behind the excitement of being dressed.

[~Joanne~]

I was never trying to put anybody on defense, I just wanted to know the story behind their Avatars.
I really don't think most took it badly, they are just honest about their feelings. I think some fear comes hand-in-hand with the CD/TG thing, I have certainly had my terrified moments. And although I have a much better grip on it now, it's still there, just behind the excitement of being dressed.

I never took or read it badly hon I was a little offended by the person who needs a real pic to be friends with anyone but other than that, this was an interesting read