I confess - I don't have a femme name. (Actually, my real name becomes feminine by adding an 'e' on the end and a lot of people I correspond with in business add the 'e' by mistake.) I think the real reason is that I don't feel like 'me dressed up' is a different person. I suppose I'm saying I want to look like a woman but I don't want to pretend to be one. Maybe I'm wrong. I should ask the great giver of reality checks (my wife).
