Yes she did for many years, she was one of the ones in denial. Gradually little things progressed, she dressed 24/7 and lived as a woman, laser for facial hair etc, then she changed her name by deed poll, still she did not say she was TS, then she hit a spell of depression and went to see a counsellor and things started to come out.
I knew before she actually accepted she was TS. I read on here in the TS forum and think hmmm that sounds familiar, but didn't say anything as I didn't want to push her into accepting herself until she was ready.
Kate it's not "if" Nigella gets srs it is when. Infact we was at the Leeds GIC the other week, with Nigella being on hormones for over a year now we were discussing surgeons and the next step on the road.
As to what am I going to do...do you think I'm gonna going running and screaming to the hills
We have sat and talked and talked for many hours about this, I am with Nigella all the way, we are doing this together. We are still a couple and have a very,very strong marriage, yes we've had our ups and downs like many couples do. I am with Nigella all the way.
Kate I may be a rare women, but our relationship has been built on trust and honesty. As each step has cropped up we have sat and discussed and been honest with each other, and Nigella has always asked me "are you happy with that" and yes Nigella has now said that coming this far, if I said "nope can't do it any more" then she couldn't go back...is she selfish? yep she is and she has said so herself, but it is what she has to do it is who she is. I don't know what is round the corner no one does, but and I know I keep repeating myself, I am with her all the way.