going on a date en femme

[Lorileah]

The thing about CD/TG/TS is that there are more than a few men who find us especially attractive because we're not GGs, and not just gays in denial or fetishists. I think it has a lot to do with our exaggerated expression of femininity (by modern standards). The dresses, skirts, hose, heels, lingerie, makeup, perfume stuff that so many GGs don't seem to have a passion for these days, or reserve for the occasional formal setting. I suppose some of them also get a thrill from knowing our secret and together convincing others that we're "normal" couples out for a date.

More like just a few. It would be extremely rare to find a guy no matter what age who would be willing to just go on a date and not want more.

You can watch Craigslist for men looking (casual encounters: m4t) and respond (make up an anonymous dummy e-mail account first), or advertise yourself (t4m) and sift through the responses.

Well there goes "safe". IF you get a guy to respond and follow through, do you really want a guy who posts on the internet? (Maybe you could call their wife too)

Am I the only one not living a fairytale here? Or am I the only one who has met more creeps than anyone should? I really have only met two men who had no sexual designs on me in the last few months, they were a couple and gay.

Let me reiterate. 1) if they date you they have ulterior motives. Even rich OLD men don't date just to have a companion ONCE. They want a sexual companion or they need a beard. 2) Guys don't date without expecting more than a handshake. 3) If they date a TG in any manner other than a TS they are Bi or GAY, they are not straight and they are NOT stupid. You will be the bottom probably and often they will use you and dump you (again ask their wife) 4) There is no such thing as a safe date. You have to always be aware. (GG's wanna back me on this?) 5) This is a fantasy. It isn't what you expect it to be. It will go suddenly and probably horribly wrong if you go into it thinking he will stay a gentleman. 6) you are exactly what you hated in High School You are a tease and a user because you want nothing more than a meal ticket and dance partner.

Now if you pay them to take you out then you are hiring an escort.

Maybe it is age, maybe it is experience, maybe it is years of knowing guys (hey guys talk.). Maybe I am crazy trying to convince you otherwise.