Is it lonely in your closet?

[Janelle_C]

not telling your wife is deceitful and very harming to trust, you are who you are, it may seem not fair to tell her but it is more unfair if you do not. You deserve to do what you need to do, and she will understand if she truly loves you.

I'm not sure where you got the idea that my wife does'nt know. My wife has known for 30 years. I was happy in my closet because that's were I felt safe. I would of reather died then have some one find out. But as I go throw therapy I'm okay with who I am. And now my closet is still safe but also to restrictive. And I know sometime down the road I will be leaving my closet. Janelle